Chicks and their Guy Friends...

BUSINESSMAN07 · 08-26-08, 02:44 AM

Oh how I want to fuckin murder guy friends

so were back at school im in my chicks dorm chillin and one of her guy friends sam pops up, im cool with the dude or whatever but he aint my man and all that shit. so Im stressing bout school and work. I got 2 jobs taking calculus and physics 2 so I go for a walk. I come back and her and sam are MIA. so Im like wtf. wait like 15 mins and call her. she's walking around with sam.

so when she gets back she's all excited to see me and shit. Im like hold the fuck up. what the fuck is this? she's like what?

so im tryna keep my cool as I explain to her what the fuck this looks like... so she's all Im sorry, sniffle bull shit. Im still pissed as fuck. ladys guys chime in. tell me what to think
our 6 monthes is on the 2nd,
Im taking this relationship pretty serious,

I trust this girl I just don't trust dudes,

so tell me what to think.

and post about your experiences to make me feel better.

The Crowing · 08-26-08, 03:03 AM

I think you should refrain from a few words used, but...

Well, without knowing her, it's hard to say. I think maybe you're just being paranoid, but... eh.

FutureX 2001 · 08-26-08, 03:20 AM

It's kind of hard to say, that depends on her personality and yours as well. People are different. If it bothers you it's good you bring it up, she may, or may not be that way... But at the same time, you might offend her and you never know... she might have been a keeper but you end up losing her over your paranoia.

I'd say, make sure you really get to know her, and go out with her friends as well as a group, get to know them...

92drls · 08-26-08, 03:59 AM

"Their"....

Besides the grammar, your paranoid and jealous. All of the jealousy and paranoia you showed her while being pissed off, triggered things and now she's turned off by you. You became clingy in other words. 6 months only sounds like enough time, better shape up and read this chick better or your walking bro...

l4zy415 · 08-26-08, 04:23 AM

Scare the living shit out of her guy friend. That's what I did to my ex guy friend. I actually pulled a knife on him telling to watch yourself or your balls might end up in your throat. But that was 5 years ago. I scared him pretty bad lol. But, just don't do what I did, he might call the cops on ya and do something stupid.

**502 MotorSports** · 08-26-08, 04:37 AM

and I agree with 92drls

If you are doing the right thing, you won't really have to worry about nothing. Your swag should speak for itself.

G2BMC · 08-26-08, 07:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BUSINESSMAN07

Oh how I want to fuckin murder guy friends

so were back at school im in my chicks dorm chillin and one of her guy friends sam pops up, im cool with the dude or whatever but he aint my man and all that shit. so Im stressing bout school and work. I got 2 jobs taking calculus and physics 2 so I go for a walk. I come back and her and sam are MIA. so Im like wtf. wait like 15 mins and call her. she's walking around with sam.

so when she gets back she's all excited to see me and shit. Im like hold the fuck up. what the fuck is this? she's like what?

so im tryna keep my cool as I explain to her what the fuck this looks like... so she's all Im sorry, sniffle bull shit. Im still pissed as fuck. ladys guys chime in. tell me what to think
our 6 monthes is on the 2nd,
Im taking this relationship pretty serious,

I trust this girl I just don't trust dudes,

so tell me what to think.

and post about your experiences to make me feel better.

Depends on how long they been friends and where they know each other from. Make sure U find out whether the've dated or not. I generally dont like to ask bout the past of my girl, but I will ask if her and her guy friend ever dated or had any other kind of attractions. He could be a fucking cherry picker who listens to her bout everything u do wrong. Now he's got the gameplan down and he already knows what she wants. kinda easy to play battleship if u know where the other persons ships are.

Or just get urself a "Girl"friend. See how she feels bout that. The key is she has to be of equal or greater value. Once u've shown what its like to have some1 else who occupies her time ur supposed to be with her, hopefully she'll catch the point.

Bushido95Legend · 08-26-08, 07:28 AM

iggy got a good point. you have to know how long they been friends, and more important, have they ever dated?
trust me , i seen friends screwing over friend just to date his or her mate.
a month back i went to san berdo , and was bored so i called up some fellows i know to kick back and drink. hes a cool dude in my book, then he start to talk about he is seeing another girl, while he's still with his current girl. his current gf is a really sweet cool girl. so i was disapointed in him. but its none of my business so i just look the other way.

just be observiant, and stay cool until you caught them in the act.

**B+O** · 08-26-08, 09:06 AM

Iggy speaks the truth. However that's a two way street. Some people are stupid...they'll feel slighted and then start seeing MORE people when they're supposed to be talking with you. It ends up being a nasty cycle and everyone ends up hurt...

That said,

I'm always skeptical of "guy friends" as I used to be the "guy friend." Cherry picker as he called it. LOL! It's already too late to take back what happened since you beasted on her about the whole situation. It's just time to reel it back in, get your swagger back, re-evaluate the standing with your female friends (get it back on track), and cool out. WATCH THAT DUDE though, and gently find out their prior relationship. If he been trying to get at it with no success, you don't really have to worry about him. I've been that dude so if he's not gotten a taste of the pannies in at least a year, he's not going to. Keep your swagger up, that's all you need to do.

I'd say she hasn't done anything yet, but you should just watch that dude like a hawk. I don't trust dudes, but I trust a normal woman less...they're good for making bad decisions consistently.

*Daddymac117* · 08-26-08, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by B+O

That said,

I'm always skeptical of "guy friends" as I used to be the "guy friend." Cherry picker as he called it. LOL! It's already too late to take back what happened since you beasted on her about the whole situation. It's just time to reel it back in, get your swagger back, re-evaluate the standing with your female friends (get it back on track), and cool out. WATCH THAT DUDE though, and gently find out their prior relationship. If he been trying to get at it with no success, you don't really have to worry about him. I've been that dude so if he's not gotten a taste of the pannies in at least a year, he's not going to. Keep your swagger up, that's all you need to do.

Werd to an extent. I got a couple of chicks i've been friends with for like 10-15 years, since we were in elementary school, all of which got some clingy paranoid bastard with them who swears i'm trying to get with them

. If she's with you, she's with you for a reason. If she's known dude for mad long, and aint shit goin on with them, aint nothing you gotta worry about. Having known them for forever, if I wanted to get with them, I'da done that mad long ago... not waited 15 years to try and fuck while she's doin her thing with you. So all "guy friends" aint worth bein paranoid as hell over.

If it's some relatively new dude who she's had a recent relationship with, and they started getting buddy-buddy again, yeah, that might turn into an issue.

If it's some really new dude who she met while she was with you, and they just now gettin buddy-buddy out of nowhere, yeah, that's probably an issue.

If it's the dude she's known since before you had hair on your nuts, don't bother. Most of us ain't tryin to get with her, and please don't start acting paranoid because then we gotta hear her bitch to us about how she thinks you're being a jerk... and I really don't wanna hear that shit

But in your situation, that was kinda fucked up what they did... I wouldn't even do some shit like that while you're chillin together. That dude is definitely worth watching out for.

Quote:

I'd say she hasn't done anything yet, but you should just watch that dude like a hawk. I don't trust dudes, but I trust a normal woman less...they're good for making bad decisions consistently.

to the full extent.

91LSplendid · 08-26-08, 10:25 AM

Guys NEVER just want to be friends.
.

**B+O** · 08-26-08, 11:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 91LSplendid

Guys NEVER just want to be friends.
.

well that's not entirely true...

There have been a few females in which i like and respected much more than to sully the friendship with sex or an intimate relationship.

As much as i hate to admit it, sex does seem to complicate things. women want to change the dynamic of a relationship when you're having sex so it's better to just leave them as friends. Plus a female friend is far better a mouth piece of your merits to other ladies than just your own swagger.

91LSplendid · 08-26-08, 11:36 AM

how 'bout this...single men NEVER just want to be friends?

now that I am married I can be just a friend....but when I was single...I was the "friend", but if she said lets bring it to another level...

...and did....sorry if she was anybody's girl on here

...now that would be a small world

.

KEYZER SOZE · 08-26-08, 11:59 AM

Businessman,
He's probably an innocent friend, but just stupid. There's no way in hell that any friend (male/female) should feel comfortable interferring with your quality time with your main squeeze.

I have a few friends that are women, but I would never over-step my boundaries. If he calls (I'm out), if he visits (see ya), if he's on his way (later),etc. It's just plain RESPECT.

This is the fucked-up part:
Don't let that bastard off easy. Shit, it's been known that even gay guys sometimes cross the pussy threshold at times. Anyone can be a potential suspect! The best attitude to have is..."shit, whatever". Keep your confidence up! Bitches hate a weak ass, unconfident, silly-ass, paranoid dick. You are a LEGEND, NICKA! You are the essence of sophistication, brilliance, style, mystique, rarity, and satisfaction. Be true to you. If she or anyone else doesn't realize it...fuck em, and move on. She can ride with a ford escort, or roll with a LEGEND? The choice is hers. Remember, you are the BUSINESSMAN...be about your business baby!

robriguez · 08-26-08, 12:08 PM

Forget about the dude for a sec, that was ill on her part to just bounce without telling you. New friends, old friends, dont matter. She bounced. IMO that shows inconsideration.

As for dude, hawkeye his azz and if he starts encroaching, have a MAN-to-MAN with him and make it clear you aint going nowhere and he needs to relax. If he does its all good. If he doesnt, time for her to make a choice before you have to.

08-26-08, 03:20 AM	#3 (permalink)
FutureX 2001 L E G E N D Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Montebello, CA Posts: 4,578 Car 1: '95 Coupe Car 2: '94 Sedan GS Car 3: '90 Coupe iTrader: (2)	It's kind of hard to say, that depends on her personality and yours as well. People are different. If it bothers you it's good you bring it up, she may, or may not be that way... But at the same time, you might offend her and you never know... she might have been a keeper but you end up losing her over your paranoia. I'd say, make sure you really get to know her, and go out with her friends as well as a group, get to know them... __________________

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92drls Factory Freak! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Springfield MO Posts: 1,317 Car 1: JDM KA8 5sp Car 2: Lincoln LS8 RIP iTrader: (0)	"Their".... Besides the grammar, your paranoid and jealous. All of the jealousy and paranoia you showed her while being pissed off, triggered things and now she's turned off by you. You became clingy in other words. 6 months only sounds like enough time, better shape up and read this chick better or your walking bro... __________________

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l4zy415 FRISCO LEGEND BABY!!!! Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Frisco Cali Posts: 5,123 Car 1: 1988 Acura Legend Sedan iTrader: (6)	Scare the living shit out of her guy friend. That's what I did to my ex guy friend. I actually pulled a knife on him telling to watch yourself or your balls might end up in your throat. But that was 5 years ago. I scared him pretty bad lol. But, just don't do what I did, he might call the cops on ya and do something stupid. __________________ ______________________________ 18" Limited 341 Chrome Rims/\Matador Red Paint/\Weapon R - Secret Weapon Intake/\LED Bright White Dash Lights/Floor/\Kenwood KDC-X590 Excelon Mp3 Deck/\Ford Taurus Coin/Cup Holder/\2 12" Kickers/\1200 Watt Sony XM-2200GTX 2-Channel Xplod Amp/\2 Rockford Fosgate Capacitors/\Power Acoustic Capacitor/\Clear Rear Turn Signal/\Reverse Glow Gauges/\Swapped 88' Headlights to 89'-90'/\JDM Rear Chrome Trim/\Stromung Muffler/ Soon To Come: Rebuild Motor and 5-MT Swap

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08-26-08, 07:28 AM	#8 (permalink)
Bushido95Legend Registered User Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: SoCal LoCal Posts: 1,068 Car 1: 84 Pontiac 6000(sold) Car 2: KA7 iTrader: (0)	iggy got a good point. you have to know how long they been friends, and more important, have they ever dated? trust me , i seen friends screwing over friend just to date his or her mate. a month back i went to san berdo , and was bored so i called up some fellows i know to kick back and drink. hes a cool dude in my book, then he start to talk about he is seeing another girl, while he's still with his current girl. his current gf is a really sweet cool girl. so i was disapointed in him. but its none of my business so i just look the other way. just be observiant, and stay cool until you caught them in the act.

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B+O Welcome Home Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: VSC Moderator Posts: 12,447 Car 1: why? iTrader: (1)	Iggy speaks the truth. However that's a two way street. Some people are stupid...they'll feel slighted and then start seeing MORE people when they're supposed to be talking with you. It ends up being a nasty cycle and everyone ends up hurt... That said, I'm always skeptical of "guy friends" as I used to be the "guy friend." Cherry picker as he called it. LOL! It's already too late to take back what happened since you beasted on her about the whole situation. It's just time to reel it back in, get your swagger back, re-evaluate the standing with your female friends (get it back on track), and cool out. WATCH THAT DUDE though, and gently find out their prior relationship. If he been trying to get at it with no success, you don't really have to worry about him. I've been that dude so if he's not gotten a taste of the pannies in at least a year, he's not going to. Keep your swagger up, that's all you need to do. I'd say she hasn't done anything yet, but you should just watch that dude like a hawk. I don't trust dudes, but I trust a normal woman less...they're good for making bad decisions consistently.

08-26-08, 11:36 AM	#13 (permalink)
91LSplendid Registered User Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Upstate, NY Posts: 1,342 Car 1: 1991 Legend LS Sedan Car 2: 2008 Grand Caravan iTrader: (2)	how 'bout this...single men NEVER just want to be friends? now that I am married I can be just a friend....but when I was single...I was the "friend", but if she said lets bring it to another level... ...and did....sorry if she was anybody's girl on here ...now that would be a small world . __________________ *John aka: Splendid* '91 LS - Golden Glow Pearl Clearcoat w/ Ivory Leather 94K miles Mods 7 Spoke OEM Machined Rims, Sunroof Tilt, Armrest w/ Cupholder, Iggee Seat Covers w/ Controls mod. UnMods Removed tint Gallery Pictures Link DIY's 1) How to Install Iggee Front Seat Covers 2) Iggee front seat covers w/ seat controls mod .

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KEYZER SOZE Mr. Couper Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Alpharetta, GA Posts: 1,126 Car 1: 94 black coupe-sold! Car 2: 91 green coupe-sold! Car 3: 95 white coupe-sold! iTrader: (0)	Businessman, He's probably an innocent friend, but just stupid. There's no way in hell that any friend (male/female) should feel comfortable interferring with your quality time with your main squeeze. I have a few friends that are women, but I would never over-step my boundaries. If he calls (I'm out), if he visits (see ya), if he's on his way (later),etc. It's just plain RESPECT. This is the fucked-up part: Don't let that bastard off easy. Shit, it's been known that even gay guys sometimes cross the pussy threshold at times. Anyone can be a potential suspect! The best attitude to have is..."shit, whatever". Keep your confidence up! Bitches hate a weak ass, unconfident, silly-ass, paranoid dick. You are a LEGEND, NICKA! You are the essence of sophistication, brilliance, style, mystique, rarity, and satisfaction. Be true to you. If she or anyone else doesn't realize it...fuck em, and move on. She can ride with a ford escort, or roll with a LEGEND? The choice is hers. Remember, you are the BUSINESSMAN...be about your business baby! __________________

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robriguez It's good to be the King! Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: NJ Posts: 679 Car 1: 95 Legend 5-spd Car 2: 06 Envoy Denali Car 3: 07 Yamaha Warrior iTrader: (20)	Forget about the dude for a sec, that was ill on her part to just bounce without telling you. New friends, old friends, dont matter. She bounced. IMO that shows inconsideration. As for dude, hawkeye his azz and if he starts encroaching, have a MAN-to-MAN with him and make it clear you aint going nowhere and he needs to relax. If he does its all good. If he doesnt, time for her to make a choice before you have to. __________________ 95 Acura Legend L, 5-spd, custom Type F interior.

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