Enough of this!!!!!!!!!

Ken · 01-14-05, 06:34 PM

I'VE HAD ENOUGH OF THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EVERYONE HAS BEEN TREATING ME IM RETARDED ESCECIALLY MY PARENTS AND I CAN'T STAND IT ANYMORE!!!!!!!!! I have nothing to live for. I DON'T CARE IF I DIE TODAY, TOMORROW OR WHENEVER. Only the though of cars keeps me alive, it makes me forget about all my problems. Life is worthless for me. I HATE LIFE!!!!!! I DON'T EVEN CARE IF I CAN DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT, IVE HAD IT!!!!!!!!

GSteg · 01-14-05, 07:09 PM

calm down and take a deep breathe. you got a long way to go. my parents use to treat me the same when i was younger but now they actually respect me and treat me like an adult.

Whatever it is, just take it easy and no matter how much u want to die, eventually when u get older you'll think back "boy was i wrong"

94LCoupe · 01-14-05, 07:12 PM

You're 13 years old. Your parents know what is better for you. Just listen to them. All Asian kids go through this man. Just hang in there.

Sho Ga Nai · 01-14-05, 08:10 PM

Ken,

We all love you here. Your parents only treat you that way because they worry about you. I know you are an intelligent and bright young man- not kid, young man.

You know what you are doing and where you want to go. Just put that in the back of your mind when you are feeling down.

XXOO
Sara

jigga225 · 01-14-05, 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by 94LCoupe

All Asian kids go through this man. Just hang in there.

lol man why does it have to be just asian kids!?!?

94LCoupe · 01-14-05, 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by jigga225

lol man why does it have to be just asian kids!?!?

Ha, I said all Asian kids go through it. Not JUST Asian kids.

duck · 01-15-05, 12:01 AM

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Originally Posted by 94LCoupe

Ha, I said all Asian kids go through it. Not JUST Asian kids.

LOL, my mom used to treat me like sh1t alot of the time. I know she meant well, but she has admitted she was a bit harsh raising me (also, I am the first child and she was the first child, so I had to be raised to a stricter standard...) But I remember most of my other korean friends their korean dads were just brutal with them. Maybe it is an asian thing.

Ken, the best advice I can give is take note of all the crap your parents do that offends you, and promise yourself you will not do the same to your kids. That's what I did a couple years ago when I found out my wife was pregnant--Someone gave me that advice, and it is good advice, because if you don't, you'll be *just* like your parents when you "grow up". I'm not saying my parents were bad parents, just if I had to do it over, I would do it my way.

As long as your parents mean well, just roll with it. Try and put yourself in their shoes--It doesn't necessarily make them right, or make your life easier, but understanding where they are coming from is an enlightening thing.

And come on out here and b*tch about it, I'm sure we all have some stories to tell about being raised!

JTJohnny102 · 01-15-05, 12:14 AM

everyone will experience up's and down's in their lives, you may thing they treat you like crap but more than likely they love you. just give it a breather and some time, it's true, as you get older you start to earn the respect you deserve, no need to go out and harm yourself or not care about dying. again, think about who you would effect if you did end up gone the next day. just keep your head up...ive had bad times in my life but just keep it strong. im not a religous person but i did go to church for the first time in years when i was down and it did help somewhat with having some faith in something.

*hnic* · 01-15-05, 01:38 AM

if makes you feel any better, my mom wanted to choke me when i was 13....and 17...

91LSMAN · 01-15-05, 02:28 AM

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Originally Posted by 94LCoupe

You're 13 years old. Your parents know what is better for you. Just listen to them. All Asian kids go through this man. Just hang in there.

I would have to agree with that statement, sorry.

Cole Austin · 01-15-05, 02:34 AM

Ken... man what are your parents exactly doing that is making you so upset?

And like all these guys said... and ontop of that you are by far the most mature 13 year old I have EVER seen. If anybody can deal with some problems it would be you.

*stevieray* · 01-15-05, 04:49 AM

Ken, being a parent is a tough job because all you want is the best for your kids and what we think is the best and what you think is best don't always agree. Matter of fact, they usually don't. Just trust that your parents are trying to help and listen to what they tell you.

Us old people really do know what we are talking about. It just sounds like we don't to you right now. You'll appreciate this when you have kids of your own.

sleeprlegendcp · 01-15-05, 05:02 AM

Ken, I know your feeling. When I was about your age I was the man of the house and I had two sisters one mother and a huge house to take care of. You are at a point when things will seem really hard and confusing, but if you just give it a few more years you will see it turning around. At that point you will also be suprised how upset you got over things that seem trivial at that point. I gess what I am trying to say is just hold on for a little longer. Listen to your parents, but never lose your opinion. They might not listen to you now, but you are not to far from the point where they will. I wish you the best of luck.
Later!
Lee

tnelson · 01-15-05, 05:15 AM

Im 21 and my parents still try to run my life. My mom is a control freak, and I am her oldest. They dont realize that at some point, they have to let go and let me make my decisions, right or wrong, on my own. That is one of the hardest things for parents. Hope things get better man. I could talk about my problems on here, but i think you would all get depressed just reading it. My friends are all like, damn man, i dont know how you even make it thru a whole day.

DSCLegend94 · 01-15-05, 05:32 AM

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Im 21 and my parents still try to run my life.

Hey man, Im 25 and same thing. Not to the same extreme as when I was 13, but I know they do it because they love me. I also believe it was because I was the first born that I got treated stricter than my younger sister.
We don't know the whole story about you, so I can't make any judgments. It depends also in your culture, many parents believe on spanking the child for DISCIPLINE, But others believe that its is BEATING UP. Maybe im off topic here, but just remember that your parents love you and you shouldn't hurt yourself, because you'll be hurting others too.

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GSteg Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: California Posts: 2,519 Car 1: 1992 iTrader: (0)	calm down and take a deep breathe. you got a long way to go. my parents use to treat me the same when i was younger but now they actually respect me and treat me like an adult. Whatever it is, just take it easy and no matter how much u want to die, eventually when u get older you'll think back "boy was i wrong" __________________ 1992 Acura Legend LS sedan

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94LCoupe Vrooom Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Plano, Texas Posts: 1,755 Car 1: 1994 L Coupe iTrader: (0)	You're 13 years old. Your parents know what is better for you. Just listen to them. All Asian kids go through this man. Just hang in there. __________________ -Brian

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Sho Ga Nai Asian Female Driver Join Date: May 2002 Location: East Bay, CA Posts: 1,191 Car 1: STi Car 2: 95 LS 6sp iTrader: (0)	Ken, We all love you here. Your parents only treat you that way because they worry about you. I know you are an intelligent and bright young man- not kid, young man. You know what you are doing and where you want to go. Just put that in the back of your mind when you are feeling down. XXOO Sara __________________ Pray for jury duty

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JTJohnny102 Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Nebraska Posts: 3,641 Car 1: 93 Black L Coupe Car 2: 91 Red LS Coupe(RIP) iTrader: (1)	everyone will experience up's and down's in their lives, you may thing they treat you like crap but more than likely they love you. just give it a breather and some time, it's true, as you get older you start to earn the respect you deserve, no need to go out and harm yourself or not care about dying. again, think about who you would effect if you did end up gone the next day. just keep your head up...ive had bad times in my life but just keep it strong. im not a religous person but i did go to church for the first time in years when i was down and it did help somewhat with having some faith in something. __________________ http://www.cardomain.com/ride/773155

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stevieray Swollen Member Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Franklin, TN Posts: 7,590 Car 1: '95 LS Coupe Car 2: '91 LS Coupe Car 3: '97 NSX-T iTrader: (14)	Ken, being a parent is a tough job because all you want is the best for your kids and what we think is the best and what you think is best don't always agree. Matter of fact, they usually don't. Just trust that your parents are trying to help and listen to what they tell you. Us old people really do know what we are talking about. It just sounds like we don't to you right now. You'll appreciate this when you have kids of your own. __________________ *"King of Kleen"* "Know this. Being able to purchase a Legend and being able to afford a Legend are two separate things. Realize nothing post-purchase is cheap." - LegendGS

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sleeprlegendcp Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: . Posts: 10,099 Car 1: . iTrader: (0)	Ken, I know your feeling. When I was about your age I was the man of the house and I had two sisters one mother and a huge house to take care of. You are at a point when things will seem really hard and confusing, but if you just give it a few more years you will see it turning around. At that point you will also be suprised how upset you got over things that seem trivial at that point. I gess what I am trying to say is just hold on for a little longer. Listen to your parents, but never lose your opinion. They might not listen to you now, but you are not to far from the point where they will. I wish you the best of luck. Later! Lee __________________ National Acura Legend Meet 2008 - 4th of July - Chattanooga, TN - Click Here!

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tnelson Pedobear is watching you Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 7,653 Car 1: 2002 TL-S, white Car 2: 1992 Corvette iTrader: (3)	Im 21 and my parents still try to run my life. My mom is a control freak, and I am her oldest. They dont realize that at some point, they have to let go and let me make my decisions, right or wrong, on my own. That is one of the hardest things for parents. Hope things get better man. I could talk about my problems on here, but i think you would all get depressed just reading it. My friends are all like, damn man, i dont know how you even make it thru a whole day. __________________ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=feLqz1udhtY

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