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MAN-WHORE
Join Date: Jul 2002
Location: FLORIDA
Posts: 2,066
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I Hate My Mother Inlaw!
I cant stand the lady. She has just about convicted me of everything in the book. She used to believe that I was gay- yet married to her daughter, she has accused me beating my wife , yet another lie,,and this year its a totaly false accusation of abusing my kids. Uggh Im so disgusted by the last one . This ine is really tearing our family apart. Everyone is starting to look at me strange or have questioning thoughts about me even tho they still believe my innocence. Just last week she tells my wife me and my best and only friend Mario were planning on poisining and killing her (my own spouse). Why I ask ,,, she has no explanation to why she makes things up but she just keeps insisting they are true. The old bag is F-ing crazy out of her mind I seriously believe she is headed for an early retiremnt at the local nursing home. She used to watch my kids while I slept during the day since I work graveyard shift...but that ish is history now. Im gonna ask my wife sister if she wants to be hired as our nanny for like 4-5 hours out of the day while I rest. I dont think the crazy Mother in-law is no longer a good role model for her grandkids and afraid she is capable of trying to brainwash them. I hate her I hate her I hate her and All my family is complet BullSh*t all my wifes family is complete BullSh*t . All I have is my wife and my 2 kids in this life nobody else.
Oh yeh and my traiotor Acura Legend that showing symptoms of a bad headgasket ,,even my car is betraying me!
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Hello, *here!
Join Date: Jul 2002
Location: Hershey, PA
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That's some completely crazy ish. I wish I knew how to handle this but I can only guess. Just try to avoid her giving you crap for a while. Hopefully your wife can talk to her mom about this stuff. It seems like they don't like you. Is there something that you're hiding from them?
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Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: California
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go on a cruise with your wife and maybe the kids (disney cruise?)
spend some time together away from her in a fun environment. when they get back they won't even want to listen to your mother in law.
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Join Date: Jun 2003
Location: Northern Virginia
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what does your wife do about her mother spreading untrue rumors about you?
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Mmmm...shny
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I would talk to your wife about this stuff first, and make sure she still backs you 100%...if not, start there. If it starts getting more out of hand (like affecting work etc) I would threaten a lawsuit on the grounds of slander(but make sure your wife backs you, or you could have bigger problems) Most likely you won't have to follow through with the lawsuit, just the threat alone should stop her.
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Have your wife go with you to visit her mother. She doesn't need to be involved, but just to be there to hear both sides out. You need to lay it out to the hag. Her lies are obviously affecting your family, and she is disrespecting you, and you don't need to tolerate that. Tell her it HAS to stop for the sake of your children and your wife. Make her understand how its affecting you and your family. If someone refuses to cease being a negative influence on your life, you need to get away from them, family, or not. Hopefully your wife will stand by you after hearing both sides, considering her mother has no explanations for her slanderous comments.
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is your motherinlaw married or have a man? does your wife's sister have one? the motherinlaw might be jealous of her daughter because she has something the mother could not a family and a man. she is just trying to be important in her daughter's life some woman can't get over the fact that their daughters belong to someone else and it makes them feel worthless especially if she sees how her daughter can handle things without her. a lot of men go through this to some extent with their inlaws especially when you live close to them. i would let my wife handle it it is her family, but that is just my opinion. i hope everything works out. as far as the BHG goes on your legend when it rains it pours. i totalled my teg 2 weeks ago and blew the engine in my coupe 4 days later, but my daughter is healthy and doesn't need the surgery they said she did i would give up everything for her so two cars down 1 daughter up i win!
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Join Date: Oct 2002
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Washington
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My suggestion is move your immediate family far away from those people. You can NOT talk sense into her. Yeah, you can sit her down and have a heart to heart, and she may seem receptive to your problems with her, but she WILL turn around and backstab you the moment she can. She lives for the friction and propaganda. It is engrained into her soul, at her age no amount of counseling will help. Moving away is not easy you may say, but what price do you pay to deal with her now compared to the cost of getting away. Relocation can be very nice, living away from the source of problems in your life is very calming. I am a refugee of a family gone bad, I have seen people go thru counseling, prescriptions, self-help BS, etc etc. Sorry, it does not work. Your family is most important...no matter what the cost.
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MOVE! FAR FAR AWAY! I swear this is the only way,(besides the hitman idea)that will work, I know because I too was in an all to similar and when aI say similar I mean exactly the same situation as u. What happened you ask, she convinced my ex wife I was a horrible horrible husband and I was going behind her back and lying to her face, and she cheated on me, because her mother told her it wasnt wrong becuz of what I was supposedly doing. So yeah why wouldnt she listen to her mother? Shes always been there for her, she will listen to anything and everything her mother tells her, even if she doesnt believe it it just might make her fell ill towards u for no reason. So like I said b4 move! My marriage went to sh!t because of my scumbag ex mother in law and Id hate to have the same happen to u.
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