Insight on the "nice guy" - Page 4

FF Drifter · 02-11-04, 01:41 PM

Sorry I'll have to disagree. I was "the nice guy" and I landed the girl. I've had her for four years now

and although I'll admit I can be an asshole, I'm at leat partly-nice too. Uh I think?

Stratoknight · 02-11-04, 02:03 PM

I dunno I have been a nice guy forever. Maybe it is the approach? FF Drifter could you enlighten us on the story?

Lately I just don't care anymore. It is a never ending cylcle for me

I like girl>I think about girl>Time goes by>I do nothing>I lose interest>I find a new girl to like

It just keeps on going and going and going...much like the Energizer Bunny.

CU-Legend · 02-11-04, 02:27 PM

Strato, that's my same cycle, except after time goes by the girl sometimes asks me out, then I do nothing and the cycle continues. Normally, that happens after I've semi lost interest, though. Just keep hanging out a ton with the girl and eventually she'll just end up liking you, I think. Usually, I miss all the signs girls give, then someone tells me afterwards that they were interested. Try making your interest obvious or talking about it with her and your friend Jack(Daniels) if you feel so inclined as to actually do something. In my experience, though, your best friend is confidence.

**B+O** · 02-11-04, 02:40 PM

I know about FF Drifter....but his story is not one that i condone:p but he landed a pretty girl and thats all that matters no?

LOL that spineless story is cute. i dont really identify with it toooooo much. but i agree with the part about spineless. Im me for any and everyone and for me. If you ain't being you, you aint bein true. IM still young and that's part of my problem...I attract women (which i dont mind

) WAYYYY older like...25+.

those type im attracted too as well. more like 20-22. im 19 (20 in may). I dont flop and wiggle for people but i do bend way too much...i refuse to be someone's emotional evacuation path because all in all who does it help? not me. I mean...over the years (from the years of the unfaithful girlfriend to the Lonely years pre and post that on-going saga) i have grown a bit tired of bending to everyone. That is hte part i can identify with the story...fact is. i have a spine i dont cause odds and ends with people cause i HATE confrontation. you got beef with me lets handle/discuss it but i dont pick fights, but i speak exactly whats on my mind most of the time...this is on the internet and in real life. i'll tell someone exactly how i feel. no doubt or shames because if you dont...who knows when you get to say something else...NEVER leave stuff unsaid.

Stiff stuck up blah blah blah...thats a cute story and it may apply to some...but it kinda like missed the mark for me...i just finally grew a spine

EDIT:
The more and more i read that joint the cooler it gets LOL...the part about the spineless chick...thats EXACTLY the type of chick the Spineless guy wants...WEIRD! Reason i say this is Look through the beginning of this post...i went after that girls boyfriend for doing her in. C'MON!!! if she was still with him...she was spineless. a bag of meat+ a bag of meat does not = A strong tower... that is REALLY interesting...

*just had a new revelation*

**B+O** · 02-11-04, 02:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CU-Legend
Strato, that's my same cycle, except after time goes by the girl sometimes asks me out, then I do nothing and the cycle continues. Normally, that happens after I've semi lost interest, though. Just keep hanging out a ton with the girl and eventually she'll just end up liking you, I think. Usually, I miss all the signs girls give, then someone tells me afterwards that they were interested. Try making your interest obvious or talking about it with her and your friend Jack(Daniels) if you feel so inclined as to actually do something. In my experience, though, your best friend is confidence.

yeah...except for the JD part

Phil B · 02-11-04, 02:52 PM

LOL.....talk about resurrecting and old thread....I was like....I started a thread....when was this....? Then saw the date and was like damn...the good ole days...

CU-Legend · 02-11-04, 03:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Bang&Olufsen DK
yeah...except for the JD part

Hey, sometimes alcohol can make things like that easier, and if it goes really badly you can always say you blacked out, like that girl on Real World San Diego keeps doing. Oh, I've never gone the alcohol route before, but I've had it done to me and it definitely gets things out in the open.

Stratoknight · 02-11-04, 03:36 PM

Sometimes I feel left out that a lot of the girls drink. I am actually shocked at the amount of girls that drink... For me it is a turn off but with all the girls that I see drinking, there might be slim pickins for me. Another turn off is smoking....bleah! What happened to clean living girls?

Sho Ga Nai · 02-11-04, 05:14 PM

maybe so for you guys but my BF is a nice guy. He finishes first to me.

Nutoy · 02-11-04, 06:43 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by g2girl
He finishes first to me. [/b]

Is that a good thing?

I'm sorry I couldn't resist

wiplegend · 02-11-04, 08:42 PM

unfortunatly some girls like the a**hole
type because in their mind this equates to
strength.these girls end up lonley,broken
hurt & desperate. the smart girls,they pick up the pieces (after meeting the a**hole type) & move on.then they meet the nice guy,us,car guys..only to wish that they had stuck with the a**hole,because at least he didnt spend all his money on his car.

Sho Ga Nai · 02-12-04, 10:51 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Nutoy
Is that a good thing? I'm sorry I couldn't resist

Dara you're a

WhenHeartsRunDry · 02-12-04, 06:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Stratoknight
I dunno I have been a nice guy forever. Maybe it is the approach? FF Drifter could you enlighten us on the story?

Lately I just don't care anymore. It is a never ending cylcle for me

I like girl>I think about girl>Time goes by>I do nothing>I lose interest>I find a new girl to like

It just keeps on going and going and going...much like the Energizer Bunny.

You gotta remember, The current girl replaces the last one. The most current girl always gets better looking, better personality, etc than the one before.

I used to be a nice guy my self. After being cheated on, having effed up relationships,and not getting the girl i want...ive turned into the cold hearted, jerkoff guy that gets more girls than ever before. I think this is just a phase for me because when i find the "right one" she will soften me up and i'll turn into the shy,sweet guy that i was before.....As for now, i'll have somefun and keep pimpin....thats just my 2cents

Oh ya, the legend = mad points for your pimp status.

90Legendman(LS) · 02-13-04, 01:44 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by WhenHeartsRunDry
You gotta remember, The current girl replaces the last one. The most current girl always gets better looking, better personality, etc than the one before.

I used to be a nice guy my self. After being cheated on, having effed up relationships,and not getting the girl i want...ive turned into the cold hearted, jerkoff guy that gets more girls than ever before. I think this is just a phase for me because when i find the "right one" she will soften me up and i'll turn into the shy,sweet guy that i was before.....As for now, i'll have somefun and keep pimpin....thats just my 2cents

Oh ya, the legend = mad points for your pimp status.

NOW DATS WHAT I'M TALKIN BOUT, SPOKEN LIKE A TRUE PIMP !

thats exactly how i'am

The right one will turn your whole attitude around

this is soo true !

spclv · 02-13-04, 02:03 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by WhenHeartsRunDry
You gotta remember, The current girl replaces the last one. The most current girl always gets better looking, better personality, etc than the one before.

I used to be a nice guy my self. After being cheated on, having effed up relationships,and not getting the girl i want...ive turned into the cold hearted, jerkoff guy that gets more girls than ever before. I think this is just a phase for me because when i find the "right one" she will soften me up and i'll turn into the shy,sweet guy that i was before.....As for now, i'll have somefun and keep pimpin....thats just my 2cents

Oh ya, the legend = mad points for your pimp status.

thats what im talking about. im the exact same way. f the hoes. when u find the right one u will know and go back to ur self. until then, pimp and be cold, cause its not worth the heart ache. i just lost a beautiful girl of 6 years. now its on. pay back is a . kitty make a man brave.

02-11-04, 01:41 PM	#46 (permalink)
FF Drifter It's stock, really. Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Atlanta, GA Posts: 3,070 Car 1: KA7 Legend sedan, 5 speed manual iTrader: (1)	Sorry I'll have to disagree. I was "the nice guy" and I landed the girl. I've had her for four years now and although I'll admit I can be an asshole, I'm at leat partly-nice too. Uh I think? __________________ -8000K HID low-beams/PIAA Spark 8000 high-beams/PIAA Plasma GT-X corners -Type II brakes/some weight reduction/new tires every 4-6 months -NA1 NSX wheels: Kumho Ecsta SPT 225/50V-16R in front, Kumho Ecsta ASX 205/60V-15R in rear -Custom built six-puck kevlar clutch/Lightened (aluminum) pulleys -[Mugen/Showa] suspension with remote-adjustable dampers -C35A1/C32A1 hybrid swap; smog legal (by GreenLight Auto)

02-11-04, 02:03 PM	#47 (permalink)
Stratoknight Yúgí Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Lakewood WA Posts: 1,736 Car 1: 1991 Black Sedan iTrader: (0)	I dunno I have been a nice guy forever. Maybe it is the approach? FF Drifter could you enlighten us on the story? Lately I just don't care anymore. It is a never ending cylcle for me I like girl>I think about girl>Time goes by>I do nothing>I lose interest>I find a new girl to like It just keeps on going and going and going...much like the Energizer Bunny. __________________ Miss Greek in support of Fred Hutching Cancer Research Center University of Washington Delts Stage6 Acura Legend Channel

02-11-04, 02:27 PM	#48 (permalink)
CU-Legend Want another Legend Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Boulder, CO Posts: 759 Car 1: '04 RSX-S Car 2: Legend on its way iTrader: (0)	Strato, that's my same cycle, except after time goes by the girl sometimes asks me out, then I do nothing and the cycle continues. Normally, that happens after I've semi lost interest, though. Just keep hanging out a ton with the girl and eventually she'll just end up liking you, I think. Usually, I miss all the signs girls give, then someone tells me afterwards that they were interested. Try making your interest obvious or talking about it with her and your friend Jack(Daniels) if you feel so inclined as to actually do something. In my experience, though, your best friend is confidence. __________________ In case you missed out on the group buy, I have a full set of pullies from the group buy for sale - $440 1991 Automatic Frost White coupe - Sold 1993 6-speed Granada Black Pearl Metallic coupe - Sold 2004 RSX-S Artic Blue Pearl - Traded 2007 Mazdaspeed6

02-11-04, 02:40 PM	#49 (permalink)
B+O Crank dat Japanese Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: VSC Moderator Posts: 12,204 Car 1: why? iTrader: (1)	I know about FF Drifter....but his story is not one that i condone:p but he landed a pretty girl and thats all that matters no? LOL that spineless story is cute. i dont really identify with it toooooo much. but i agree with the part about spineless. Im me for any and everyone and for me. If you ain't being you, you aint bein true. IM still young and that's part of my problem...I attract women (which i dont mind) WAYYYY older like...25+. those type im attracted too as well. more like 20-22. im 19 (20 in may). I dont flop and wiggle for people but i do bend way too much...i refuse to be someone's emotional evacuation path because all in all who does it help? not me. I mean...over the years (from the years of the unfaithful girlfriend to the Lonely years pre and post that on-going saga) i have grown a bit tired of bending to everyone. That is hte part i can identify with the story...fact is. i have a spine i dont cause odds and ends with people cause i HATE confrontation. you got beef with me lets handle/discuss it but i dont pick fights, but i speak exactly whats on my mind most of the time...this is on the internet and in real life. i'll tell someone exactly how i feel. no doubt or shames because if you dont...who knows when you get to say something else...NEVER leave stuff unsaid. Stiff stuck up blah blah blah...thats a cute story and it may apply to some...but it kinda like missed the mark for me...i just finally grew a spine EDIT: The more and more i read that joint the cooler it gets LOL...the part about the spineless chick...thats EXACTLY the type of chick the Spineless guy wants...WEIRD! Reason i say this is Look through the beginning of this post...i went after that girls boyfriend for doing her in. C'MON!!! if she was still with him...she was spineless. a bag of meat+ a bag of meat does not = A strong tower... that is REALLY interesting... just had a new revelation Last edited by B+O : 02-11-04 at 03:02 PM.

02-11-04, 02:52 PM	#51 (permalink)
Phil B Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: San Antonio, TX Posts: 403 Car 1: 1992 Seattle Silver LS iTrader: (0)	LOL.....talk about resurrecting and old thread....I was like....I started a thread....when was this....? Then saw the date and was like damn...the good ole days... __________________ Formerly "Civic2Legend" http://www.geocities.com/bigballer_78250/sig.txt

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02-11-04, 03:36 PM	#53 (permalink)
Stratoknight Yúgí Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Lakewood WA Posts: 1,736 Car 1: 1991 Black Sedan iTrader: (0)	Sometimes I feel left out that a lot of the girls drink. I am actually shocked at the amount of girls that drink... For me it is a turn off but with all the girls that I see drinking, there might be slim pickins for me. Another turn off is smoking....bleah! What happened to clean living girls? __________________ Miss Greek in support of Fred Hutching Cancer Research Center University of Washington Delts Stage6 Acura Legend Channel

02-11-04, 05:14 PM	#54 (permalink)
Sho Ga Nai Asian Female Driver Join Date: May 2002 Location: East Bay, CA Posts: 1,191 Car 1: STi Car 2: 95 LS 6sp iTrader: (0)	maybe so for you guys but my BF is a nice guy. He finishes first to me. __________________ Pray for jury duty

02-11-04, 08:42 PM	#56 (permalink)
wiplegend Registered User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: ny Posts: 87 Car 1: still looking iTrader: (0)	unfortunatly some girls like the ahole type because in their mind this equates to strength.these girls end up lonley,broken hurt & desperate. the smart girls,they pick up the pieces (after meeting the ahole type) & move on.then they meet the nice guy,us,car guys..only to wish that they had stuck with the a**hole,because at least he didnt spend all his money on his car. __________________ love my ford fiesta.but working to get a legend.

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