I agree with you that the RL is a capable car. My friend has a fixed up 99 RL on 19" SSR rims. Looks real good. However, I don't believe the Accord as everything the Legend has. The Accord is missing the headted seats, heated outside side mirrors, missing the traction control, missing the memory seats, missing the electronic telescoping and tilt steering wheel. However, I guess it all depends on the trim and yaer Legend you have. But even the 03 Accord doesn't have those items.
The RL owner I know likes his RL, but is a bit torn between his new RL and old 95 Legend Coupe. Each car has something the other is missing. The Legend has more sport and road feel, but the RL defiantely has more luxury.