alright, I think I screwed up. Was trying to replace main relay and I took it in to Acura. I think the part I took in was Not the main relay but some other relay that must control the Shifter because now it won't go into gear without using spare key. I needed the main relay anyway, but threw away the other part. It is located right above the fuse box and is mounted by one screw. anyone know the name of this relay/box? It should only have one pin connector...