ThePerfectLgnd

Tell her she is right... Tell her she needs to find some hot friends to bring back home to satisfy your needs!! That worked with one chick I dated!!!

Artillery129

^ i know your trying to be funny, but that's not very good advice

Vic Cardenas

Dump her, she's damaged goods. It'll only get worse and never get better. Like others have said, she had problems in the past and they are deep rooted. Go find a girl that's not a head case.

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B+O

I'm with Jen and Jigga (Jason?)

In general, humans do things we shouldn't...It's an interpersonal thing. Morally, who is capable of cheating versus being faithful falls squarely on the individual. If the type of person she choses possesses that quality it is HER fault for picking that person. As it is my fault if i pick someone who possesses those qualities.

At one point in my life I had the uncanny ability to pick out, and court Bisexual women who had a leaning desire for Women (much to my chagrin of course)...What did I do? I recognized the personality traits that i was attracted to as a common denominator across this section of women and taught myself to not look for those.

She's been hurt before, and it's understandable for her to have "trust issues" I find myself in the same boat. I'm honest with mine and I expect the same in return. Women are prone to wandering eyes just as much as men are. Women are also liable to fall victim to their desires. This "all men are dogs" stuff gets REALLY old really fast. I'm tired of hearing it.

l4zy415

You got that right. I usually hear that from my sis lol.

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dumplingcorp

accuse her of cheating.......

11454

thats why men need hobby's like cars, football, puters,dancing, music. etc. it helps you stay out of trouble.

11454

and whos fault is it that she got with a low life creep?
i am glad that you mention that james, cause its obviously all of the big brothers have gone through this before. i probly mention this already in another thread, so i will make it short.
my little sister, shes 23 now , but when shes like 18 and higher. she always goes for bad boys, wannebe gangsta crap.
i am a man, so i know how men think, i would keep telling her to stay away from those idiots it will only bring drama to her life, and to her family. but she always goes for those doucebags for a period of 4 to 5 years in a row. she never listens to me.
always bringing drama to the family, i mean if its the drama between her and her bf, then i am find, let her deal with that drama, when the drama comes to the entire family, now thats when i get pissed.
one time her bf took her to morongo casino, then they argue, and she need a ride home, whos the one mother fucker that has to go pick her up 5 am in the morning ?? me.
when my little sis broke up with another wannabe thug, and he stole her car, whos the mother fucker that has to drive through 2 county to get the car back? me and my friends. always be bring drama to my family. my mom is not in a good condition , she has health problems, and some time her bf would get really loud and keep my mom awake, and i dont get home until 3:30 am and i saw my mom crying. she told her bf to be quite so she can sleep but he told her to fuck off, and my sister never tell her bf to be quite, so i went to that fucker to choke that mother fucker out , slap him around and tied him up until he agrees to shut the fuck up.
now she got the fucken nerves to complain about how much of an asshole her ex's are, when i specifically told her what they would do and i am always fucken right.
girls that always blame shit on theyre boyfriend is just looking for a scapegoat.
girls want to do bad things too, its just convenient to have a guy to blame it on, so they can look good and get sympathy from other girls. i guess its also how girls can bond with each other, is by telling stories about theyre bad abusive ex boyfriend.

so now, the last few guys, my sister never brings them over, she knows better now. if she brings a dude here, he better be cool and respect my house and family.

dblanehopr

i've had that happen to me. was fucked up.

nothing like trying to save your ass from a jumping cuz your bitch g/f wants you to 'prove your a man' by trying to fight off 10 jocks. can you imagine i stayed with her for a year and a half?!

i'm beginning to think i'm never gonna find a chick i can be attracted to and not have to deal with bullshit

i don't want to just hookup with a stable chick just cuz she's stable. i'd never make it through. if i don't desire her, i lose interest.

11454

thats a problem when you are always trying to go for "perfect 10's". even if you do get them, its never going to be stable and easy. you will have to deal with constant loser hitting on your woman infront of you. thats why when i date a 8 or higher i never take them to poor places like fastfood and crap. those losers wannabe thugs will try to flirt with your woman infront of you, when you are out number you just have to take your woman and leave. unless you got a gun, then that should be interesting.
my rules, if you are dating an 8 or higher, i take them to expensive restuarant where people have class.

bro i think your problem is that you only go for extremely hot looking ones. once you look beyond just looks, you will appreciate a good quality women, i say those qualities even out weight theyre looks. have a girl ever clean your room and cook for you before? i almost cried when i dated a girl that did that for me. tears of joy. i dont like to date alot, but when i meet a girl, and see's qualities that i dont like, i dump them and find the ones that has the qualities i want. still looking for the some quality of woman that i had before.

Vic Cardenas

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dblanehopr

bro... how do i put this... texas chicks are fuckin hot and wild. lol... even the ok lookin ones find ways to be assertive and hard to hold down. maybe it's my fucking fate to never find a chick that's at least good looking and of course i don't have some fkd up situation it involves.

i'm not superficial.. it's just that i can't seem to find the right thing. and the only thing i see all the time is wild hot chicks. i think i've had two good girls in my life that cared about what i wanted... one was the reason why a buddy of mine (who was a complete asshole to everyone already) and i had a falling out which made her go away too. the other was a random flirting basis and she's the church type... soo a guy like me would feel like he's spoiling the milk so to speak.

11454

best thing to do is learn. keep on dating the hot and wild ones and you will eventually know how to tame them.

dblanehopr

lol. this is a different game man. real texas chicks... *the ones from the country* know exactly how to find out if you're legit or just playin a dating game...

don't know how many times i've had some chick literally start a fight for me. basically you gotta do it all with your heart... but not be emo about it.

"rocknrolla"


....could be why i've had some a fkt up ride since i graduated. lol

it's all good though... my buddy just moved back into town from up north of here, and he's thinkin about gettin some extra cash by teaching his jujitsu... with my pshyco side, i think it'll really do me some good. lol.

that and as soon as i get the friggen car running good i'm gonna go get one of those Walmart Visa cards so i can get into this Krav Maga place just up the street with a weightroom. they only want a 100 month *lil steep* but they won't accept cash. which is gay.

11454

very cool man, you should ask your friend to give you free brazilian jiu jitsu lesson. i always wanted to train in that art,i just dont got the money and time. i just jog and work on the heavy bags in my backyard for a workout.


sounds like those texas girls are wild and tuff. i never date a girl so "country" and tuff like that before, they sound like fun.