Girlfriend: Thinks all guys.... - Page 3 - The Acura Legend & Acura RL Forum
Acura Legend Forum Acura Legend Forum
 

Auto Insurance

» Featured Product
Wheel & Tire Center

Go Back   The Acura Legend & Acura RL Forum > Off Topic > The Lounge

The Lounge Talk about news, life, etc!!

Acura-Legend.com is the premier Acura Legend Forum on the internet. Registered Users do not see the above ads.
Closed Thread
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Rate Thread Display Modes
Old 12-13-08, 11:03 PM   #31 (permalink)
Mr. Couper
 
KEYZER SOZE's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Alpharetta, GA
Posts: 1,132


Car 1: 94 black coupe-sold!
Car 2: 91 green coupe-sold!
Car 3: 95 white coupe-sold!


iTrader Score: 0 reviews
THE TRUTH:

A man is only as faithful as his options. This is why we are always turning our heads looking at other ass on the street/mall, internet porn, victoria secret mags, etc.

Show me a man that's 100% faithful and I'll show you a complete idiot. With that said, there's nothing wrong with a guy who's DETERMINED to be faithful. He may actually withstand the test of time based upon his WILL.

IMO, it's the same as saying, "I'm a safe driver". Despite not having any car accidents, it doesn't make you immune from having a wreck (perhaps less likely).
__________________
KEYZER SOZE is offline  
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
Old 12-13-08, 11:08 PM   #32 (permalink)
 
Join Date: Oct 2008
Posts: 2,440


iTrader Score: 0 reviews
look for a blonde girl with tats and an attitude... and you probably found one. lol.

you gotta get into wearing Hart n Huntington stuff though. ;] ...don't ask me how i keep gettin lucky when i haven't got a tat yet... but...

hit up a biker bar and play some pool...

and i wouldn't really call them country... it's just a part of em... think of....

hmmm how do i put it... think of Pam Anderson in Barbwire but in tshirts and jeans... but willing to fuck with your head to show you they don't want you instead of just blowing you off.

that's another thing man... these girls don't really want a guy that dresses up... i dunno man.. a nice H&H shirt... good haircut or naturally semilong slicked like J. Dean... good jeans, not just regular kind... and some nice looking Vans or boots if you can pull it off. typically though, no tats... no interest. sorta... annoys the eff outta me i don't have one yet.. spent all my damn money on roadtrips and drugs and sex. lol
dblanehopr is offline  
Old 12-13-08, 11:10 PM   #33 (permalink)
Stu
Registered User
 
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: CANADA
Posts: 3,946


Car 1: 2005 Lexus LS430


iTrader Score: 3 reviews
Quote:
Originally Posted by KEYZER SOZE View Post
THE TRUTH:

........ IMO, it's the same as saying, "I'm a safe driver". Despite not having any car accidents, it doesn't make you immune from having a wreck (perhaps less likely).
Sometimes these so called "safe drivers" are not involved in accidents, but their poor driving causes accidents ....
Stu is offline  
Old 12-13-08, 11:12 PM   #34 (permalink)
 
Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 1,642


iTrader Score: 0 reviews
Quote:
Originally Posted by dblanehopr View Post
look for a blonde girl with tats and an attitude... and you probably found one. lol.

you gotta get into wearing Hart n Huntington stuff though. ;] ...don't ask me how i keep gettin lucky when i haven't got a tat yet... but...

hit up a biker bar and play some pool...

and i wouldn't really call them country... it's just a part of em... think of....

hmmm how do i put it... think of Pam Anderson in Barbwire but in tshirts and jeans... lol
thats hot. i am now intrigue with texas women now, cause i dont see those "types" around here in Socal.
11454 is offline  
Old 12-13-08, 11:18 PM   #35 (permalink)
 
Join Date: Oct 2008
Posts: 2,440


iTrader Score: 0 reviews
lol, now you're starting to get why i have a hard time just going for a normal girl... and with that description, you can imagine how much effedupedness can come out of it.

ever see the movie Black Snake Moan... yeah.. i want her sooo bad. heh... remember how i said i liked Louisiana girls?... i think that was based in Mississippi... i think... not sure.

also... Dazed n Confused was based on 'out of major cities' Texas high school kids. but that was like freakin 30 yrs ago.. but the movie was made in the 90's. ...hmm 90's was like... alternative/hard rock druggy days of gettin laid at the lake and gettin as effed up as possible.

...you know how the personality of the last Punisher movie guy was? that's a turn on for the type of chicks i like. and that brick building with the ride he had???.... yeah... that's like Austin. you know that Quintin Terintino flick ''Deathproof''? was based in Austin. no bs... i've met or seen a chick just like every one in that movie. but omg! the lapdance scene... jesus christ.. she's freakin hot.

thing is.. Dallas is a different breed... racism from ALL directions.... i've met more racist black and hispanic ppl that white ppl in Dallas County but i've had one be scared to go out to the country with me too..., stereotypes on literally everything, materialistic, and perfectionist.... i would have been a VERY different person if i hadn't seen so many other places. there's a lot of good ppl here too though, so don't get me wrong. but Austin and Dallas are miles apart. that's why i liked roughntumble bars in the coutnry more than city clubs. completely different.

Last edited by dblanehopr; 12-13-08 at 11:38 PM.
dblanehopr is offline  
Old 12-14-08, 12:40 AM   #36 (permalink)
Registered User
 
morbo's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Earth
Posts: 2,944


Car 1: I35 Sedan
Car 2: 2004 Lincoln LS


iTrader Score: 0 reviews
Send a message via AIM to morbo
Holy crap. Thanks for all the awesome responses guys...gives me a lot of perspective...

I know she's been cheated on. I know she's men do nothing but cheat her whole life. She's basing that view on what's she's lived, and what's she's seen.

I guess my biggest issue with it is that she is setting us up for failure. The approach mentioned on page 1, where I don't put myself in situations where I could be considered unfaithful just by association is a great idea. I can't expect her to just change this attitude by telling her it's not going to happen.

We've been dating for 2 months, but have known each other for 10 years.

I agree 100%: Men that cheat are habitual cheaters. My hero in life was my grandfather. Come to find out he had a whole other family that no one knew about. He actually died of a massive heart attack while having sex with his mistress. I saw the damage it did to our family, and especially my grandmother. I would *NEVER* put anyone I love through that.

I love my girlfriend. Deeply. Me cheating is never going to happen. I value sex much more than most of the guys I know, but cheating is not always sex. I would consdier kissing sex. Honestly. Cheating is a betrayal of trust to your mate. If I don't respect her enough to realize that a girl that I even kiss, or lead to believe I am interested in, I couldn't live with it.

They also say women have an intuition about a man that is a cheater. I think this is true. As much as my grandma says she had no clue, she HAD to have known my gramps was cheating on her. Actually, without being too crass, she caught him with another woman DURING THEIR HONEYMOON (back in the 40's). She knew back then. She's the one who decided to stick with him, and ignore the problem(s). I lvoe and admired my grandfather. He was a great guy. I don't justify what he did, all I can do is accept he was human. Even in his death, he taught me a valuable lesson in how NOT to treat your wife and/or mate.

Once again, thanks for all the input guys. I'm going to work very hard to deal with this as best I can. This is an issue we will have to work through in time, nothing I can say will accelerate this....
__________________

http://ffejbomb.blogspot.com
CODEALARM CAR ALARM W/REMOTE START 4 SALE! PM OR EMAIL ME FOR INFO!!!
Keepin it real fo the SA
The Internet wasn't designed for ridicule. It was invented so researchers could share common data sets at University. It was I tell you.........it was. --Homer Simpson
morbo is offline  
Old 12-14-08, 12:58 AM   #37 (permalink)
Registered User
Maze Game Champion, 3D Tunnel Champion, Anti Shanti Champion, Bartender Champion, Blot In Hell Champion, Bubbles Champion, Adidas Climacool Champion, Falldown Champion, Flash Astroids Champion, Tank named Grizzly Champion, Invasion 2196 Champion, KF 9000 Champion
 
Jimbob22's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: ...
Posts: 2,394


Car 1: .......


iTrader Score: 1 reviews
My honest Opinion...

If you good in bed, it doesn't matter what she thinks because whatever you say will be followed by an "OK DADDY"


deuce.
__________________


No Sig Worthy Posts... Here... At All...
Jimbob22 is offline  
Old 12-14-08, 01:06 AM   #38 (permalink)
 
Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 1,642


iTrader Score: 0 reviews
Quote:
Originally Posted by morbo View Post
He actually died of a massive heart attack while having sex with his mistress..
talk about karma.
11454 is offline  
Old 12-14-08, 01:09 AM   #39 (permalink)
 
Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 1,642


iTrader Score: 0 reviews
Quote:
Originally Posted by dblanehopr View Post
lol, now you're starting to get why i have a hard time just going for a normal girl... and with that description, you can imagine how much effedupedness can come out of it.

ever see the movie Black Snake Moan... yeah.. i want her sooo bad. heh... remember how i said i liked Louisiana girls?... i think that was based in Mississippi... i think... not sure.

also... Dazed n Confused was based on 'out of major cities' Texas high school kids. but that was like freakin 30 yrs ago.. but the movie was made in the 90's. ...hmm 90's was like... alternative/hard rock druggy days of gettin laid at the lake and gettin as effed up as possible.

...you know how the personality of the last Punisher movie guy was? that's a turn on for the type of chicks i like. and that brick building with the ride he had???.... yeah... that's like Austin. you know that Quintin Terintino flick ''Deathproof''? was based in Austin. no bs... i've met or seen a chick just like every one in that movie. but omg! the lapdance scene... jesus christ.. she's freakin hot.

thing is.. Dallas is a different breed... racism from ALL directions.... i've met more racist black and hispanic ppl that white ppl in Dallas County but i've had one be scared to go out to the country with me too..., stereotypes on literally everything, materialistic, and perfectionist.... i would have been a VERY different person if i hadn't seen so many other places. there's a lot of good ppl here too though, so don't get me wrong. but Austin and Dallas are miles apart. that's why i liked roughntumble bars in the coutnry more than city clubs. completely different.
havent seen any of those movies, i need to go to block buster now.lol
11454 is offline  
Old 12-14-08, 01:16 AM   #40 (permalink)
B+O
I'van der Rohe
Towers of Hanoi Champion
 
B+O's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: VSC S 。Mod
Posts: 12,824


Car 1: why?


iTrader Score: 3 reviews
Send a message via AIM to B+O
Quote:
Originally Posted by dblanehopr View Post
lol, now you're starting to get why i have a hard time just going for a normal girl... and with that description, you can imagine how much effedupedness can come out of it.

ever see the movie Black Snake Moan... yeah.. i want her sooo bad. heh... remember how i said i liked Louisiana girls?... i think that was based in Mississippi... i think... not sure.

also... Dazed n Confused was based on 'out of major cities' Texas high school kids. but that was like freakin 30 yrs ago.. but the movie was made in the 90's. ...hmm 90's was like... alternative/hard rock druggy days of gettin laid at the lake and gettin as effed up as possible.

...you know how the personality of the last Punisher movie guy was? that's a turn on for the type of chicks i like. and that brick building with the ride he had???.... yeah... that's like Austin. you know that Quintin Terintino flick ''Deathproof''? was based in Austin. no bs... i've met or seen a chick just like every one in that movie. but omg! the lapdance scene... jesus christ.. she's freakin hot.

thing is.. Dallas is a different breed... racism from ALL directions.... i've met more racist black and hispanic ppl that white ppl in Dallas County but i've had one be scared to go out to the country with me too..., stereotypes on literally everything, materialistic, and perfectionist.... i would have been a VERY different person if i hadn't seen so many other places. there's a lot of good ppl here too though, so don't get me wrong. but Austin and Dallas are miles apart. that's why i liked roughntumble bars in the coutnry more than city clubs. completely different.

Dude, stop having a pity party for yourself...

All you're doing is justifying it. Fuck what she thinks, You get what you want, when you want it, based on your "swag"

Females respond more to your ability to mind f*ck them than they do to your ability to eye f*ck them. It's not the LOOK they want (most times) it's your swagger.

If that IS what she's looking for, you're sad for trying to get with her. stop f*cking with the shallow young broads, that only f*cks up your self esteem...I'm so glad I'm at an age where It's legal for me to deal with older women. When i was out at like 17, I could make older women get wet just with my conversation.

Now that I'm 25, if she's not ATLEAST 25 or 26, she gets 0 time from me. I realized that the older they get (right around the 24-28 range) the better they are for understanding what's important, and the freakier they are when you get'em in the mix.

For real, stop complaining and either Step your Game up so you can portray that image they want, or suck up the loss and change your target...complaining about it aint gonna get sh*t done...


You're saying you have no game because she likes this look in a guy and you can't over come it (and wtf...not even like you're blaming being overweight or something but the COLOR OF YOUR HAIR?! get the f*ck outta here!)...if you got her in the back of a car buttnaked and about to make it go down there's NO reason this conversation should even be going on...wtf...


Seriously, i'm going to repeat something my Cousin told me...this dude is the master Mack and I learned a few key phrases from him that have guided me this last 2 years or so...


1. Pimpin aint on you, it's in you...

2. First you fuck her, THEN be her friend...

That's the way it goes man...If she passed the poosie to you, you take it, have fun with it and be her friend on the side...keep your pimping stong and as the song from that Disney movie Mulan says "Be a man...Mysterious as the dark side of the moon." DOn't let that broad know how your feeling...make her stick to you...

you gotta be more pimpish than simpish...and you're being real simpish right now...Get your weight up my dude...Really...


I'm not trying to come down on you, but dude...suck it up... I've dismissed a chick that was nice, slender, pretty face, for only wanting to have a "go" once... I want all access to the theme park, not just a day pass. She said "So you if you can get it how you want it, you don't want it at all, huh?" I told her "yep" so she says "Damn, we can't even be friends?"... "no"

That's my take on it.

Last edited by B+O; 12-14-08 at 01:41 AM.
B+O is offline  
Old 12-14-08, 01:33 AM   #41 (permalink)
B+O
I'van der Rohe
Towers of Hanoi Champion
 
B+O's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: VSC S 。Mod
Posts: 12,824


Car 1: why?


iTrader Score: 3 reviews
Send a message via AIM to B+O
Also, I remember i posted a long LONG thread here a while back about some issues I was having between 3 females I was dealing with back in college

This may have been about 3-4 years ago...

I stumbled upon it a few months ago and the ONE person that gave me some EXTREMELY good advice that I couldn't understand then, but I understand it now, was Jigga225.

When i read what he said i was like "f*ck! that dude was on point even back then!" Whatever he has to say, I listen now and absorb...If he comments on your situation, shut up for a minute, read what he says, and absorb it...he's dropping all kinds of wisdom in your ear.
B+O is offline  
Old 12-14-08, 03:26 AM   #42 (permalink)
Registered User
 
NoRegrets's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Omaha, NE
Posts: 1,841


Car 1: 1995 Acura Legend Coupe LS, Type II
Car 2: 1988 Cavi Z24 Drop


iTrader Score: 4 reviews
Quote:
Originally Posted by KEYZER SOZE View Post
THE TRUTH:

A man is only as faithful as his options. This is why we are always turning our heads looking at other ass on the street/mall, internet porn, victoria secret mags, etc.
100% truth! True for women too, real ones will admit this.

Quote:
Originally Posted by B+O View Post
All you're doing is justifying it. Fuck what she thinks, You get what you want, when you want it, based on your "swag"

Females respond more to your ability to mind f*ck them than they do to your ability to eye f*ck them. It's not the LOOK they want (most times) it's your swagger.



1. Pimpin aint on you, it's in you...

2. First you fuck her, THEN be her friend...

That's the way it goes man...If she passed the poosie to you, you take it, have fun with it and be her friend on the side...keep your pimping stong and as the song from that Disney movie Mulan says "Be a man...Mysterious as the dark side of the moon." DOn't let that broad know how your feeling...make her stick to you...

you gotta be more pimpish than simpish...and you're being real simpish right now...Get your weight up my dude...Really...
Recognize!

This is the only way I know how to operate. Man speaks truth here. DO IT!

Man its her issue not yours so dont sweat it. You cant CHANGE how she feels but you can accept it and do you by NOT CHEATING (hence my sig). Ignore it, like when someone is telling you a KNOWN lie and you know its pointless to argue/debate it, just smile and nod, hell even pat her on the head and say "nice girlfriend"

Ro
__________________
RoChelle

----------------------------------------------------


Last edited by NoRegrets; 12-14-08 at 09:34 AM.
NoRegrets is offline  
Old 12-14-08, 12:14 PM   #43 (permalink)
 
Join Date: Oct 2008
Posts: 2,440


iTrader Score: 0 reviews
B.O. thanx for being another jackass douche with that beautiful wisdom on how I SHOULD CONTINUE TO PUT MYSELF INTO SHIT RELATIONSHIPS BASED ON FUCKING HER THE FIRST DAY I MEET HER.

real good advice there bud.

sorry if i got a damn conscience and want something more than just a lay.

you blind? i do remember saying "if i want to just get laid, i'd go get laid." i was putting the opportunity on the line by seein if she could be worth a conversation rather than a screw.

anyone can screw and buy shit.
it takes a real man to date a chick first and want the real thing
dblanehopr is offline  
Old 12-14-08, 12:22 PM   #44 (permalink)
B+O
I'van der Rohe
Towers of Hanoi Champion
 
B+O's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: VSC S 。Mod
Posts: 12,824


Car 1: why?


iTrader Score: 3 reviews
Send a message via AIM to B+O
have fun


Just stop bitching about getting played from now on, because all you'll be doing is getting played...especially if you're trying to deal with a Female Player. female players are like male players...they're not going to be tied down... Good Luck, 19 yearold girls are in their "Attention Whore" stage...they're new to the world and they love the attention they get from guys...good luck tying one down who can get anything she wants from any guy she wants...
B+O is offline  
Old 12-14-08, 12:31 PM   #45 (permalink)
 
Join Date: Oct 2008
Posts: 2,440


iTrader Score: 0 reviews
*try to catch the sarcasm*
really? that had absolutely no relation to what i've already said.

i mean, i was totally fkn clueless until your bright shining light of wisdom flickered into my eyes

ever think MAYBE, JUST MAYBE you're typing down some completely obvious and already understood sht?

or possibly.. i could have been just having a normal conversation with someone and didn't expect to have to be perfect to yet another prick with a ego complex


guess you didn't happen to fkn catch me saying that i know plenty well how to just screw a chick and mess with her head, but i'm sick of that and wanting something real....

and not be some idiot that has 10 kids from 10 chicks before he gets hooked up. but hey... welfare's always an option right?

and if you need some help understanding this line of reasoning i had while talking to someone else, i've had everything from a day relationship, week relationship, up to a 2 year all off just screwin and hookin up.

i just might be wanting a relationship that's based on a little more than fucking.

but you're just 24... roadtrip a little bit... get out of your gd city and actually live life a little bit and you might have some more info on life under your belt sides...

"hey man... it's all about the swag"

lol... shit.
dblanehopr is offline  
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
Closed Thread

  The Acura Legend & Acura RL Forum > Off Topic > The Lounge


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools
Display Modes Rate This Thread
Rate This Thread:

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


Powered by vBadvanced CMPS v3.2.2

All times are GMT -4. The time now is 02:17 PM.



Powered by vBulletin®. Copyright ©2000 - 2021, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.6.0
vBulletin Security provided by vBSecurity v2.2.2 (Pro) - vBulletin Mods & Addons Copyright © 2021 DragonByte Technologies Ltd.
© AutoGuide