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Old 10-18-05, 11:31 PM   #1 (permalink)
 
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Whats the best way to approach a simple asian girl, intersting situation.

OK I've dated a couple of asian chicks before but circumstances were so different that I didnt even have to go through the conventional way of approaching them. Now theres this girl in my school, that I really dig, but there's a little problem. From my past experience, I know this for a fact that the friends and family of both the girls I went out with were not comfortable with the fact that she was going out with a guy, who is of South Asian descent. In NY, 911 has generated some cultural rather racist stereotypes which simply doesnt help relationships like this. Thats why one of them ended, because the family start butting in with their perception of what I might turn out to be. Now I really like this simple girl, I've noticed that she seems the type who would consider someone from another culture, but I'm thinking that I might run into a similar problem. She might have the same stupid stereotypes wired through her mind and she would just refuse simply because of who I happen to be. I know how to handle it, once we both agree to go on further from earlier experience but how do I start it off right in a way that the whole cultural thing wouldnt even come in. And no! impressing her with the leegnds is not gonna work cause she's definitely not the type II type lol. I'd rather do it without involving any materialistic things that I can brag about. I really dont wanna scare her off either. So what do you guys say.
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I've realized thinking too much and making a plan is planning for everything to go wrong. Be natural. Plans always go wrong in my experience.
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shave the beard, and for crying out loud man, take off that turban!
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shave the beard, and for crying out loud man, take off that turban!
That's not funny.
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who pissed in your cornflakes?
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who pissed in your cornflakes?
that ugly baby who was suckin on Momma McDonald's dry breast.
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That's not funny.
really?!? why not? damn... i guess it's true what they say, i really DO suck at jokes. either that, or somebody is in loooove, and is trying to be all serious... probably the former. relax bhai, just making funnies and sh!t here

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damn times have really changed on this damn forum, go to honda-tech and ask, their more helpful
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HA! i thought slip was the one who said it wasn't funny, so i tailored my response to him, only to now realize it was you, and i needn't have responded at all! good times, good times...


ANYWAY.
slip, i'm surprised you've managed to hook up with asian girls in the past, from what i've seen they don't usually like brown guys that much. as soon as you talk to her you'll know whether you have a shot or not, and then proceed accordingly
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now now, lets not be racist here
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bahahahahah! i'm the last person who's racist. i'm speaking from experience, what do you want from me. mind you, i have no luck with women of ANY race, so my opinion may not hold as much weight as i would like it to, as there is no benchmark.
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HA! i thought slip was the one who said it wasn't funny, so i tailored my response to him, only to now realize it was you, and i needn't have responded at all! good times, good times...


ANYWAY.
slip, i'm surprised you've managed to hook up with asian girls in the past, from what i've seen they don't usually like brown guys that much. as soon as you talk to her you'll know whether you have a shot or not, and then proceed accordingly



women are women regardless of the family background. if they're feelin you, you'll be able to tell right off the bat. if she's frontin, then she's not worth your time.

it's taken me many a year to discover that chicks:
1. are nothing to be afraid of.
2. families dont really much impact on what they do
3. can only be had by being yourself.
4. can imediately show if you're being felt, and it's up to you to let it go.

surprisingly number 4 is the only thing they're good about communicating in "guy language"

I cant tell you anything else other than have at it. you only live once and screw it if you get shut down. it doesn't matter I got so many bullet holes in my bulkhead from gettin shot down. Patch it up and get back in the air.

Zed:

Man it's wild, but in actuality, they're pretty enamored with the darker toned fellas...just the breaking of tradition is what scares them. It's interesting to say the least to me.

i know i sound like a contradict myself, but it only requires a little bringing out of the bad girl in her to make her sail the deeper seas
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Man it's wild, but in actuality, they're pretty enamored with the darker toned fellas...just the breaking of tradition is what scares them. It's interesting to say the least to me.
heh heh... i've had my girl for many years now, so i'm not going to be able to test the theory...
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I've realized thinking too much and making a plan is planning for everything to go wrong. Be natural. Plans always go wrong in my experience.




For the past 2 months, I've been "planning" things out on what to say to this one girl in my political science class. I would bail out everytime because of my planning. Then one day (last week ), I finally grew some hair on my balls and went up to her and just started talking as if I had known her for awhile.




....It's working out
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